Depression(Pain, disillusion, mental disorder and anxiety) is not something new in human
race. It is a natural process of becoming a fully functioning human being. But
one has to make a difference, not to entertain depression but to take action
against.
Depression is something that great number of people battle with
silently, and most of the times it becomes a vast problem especially when
proper action is not taken. Depression is a mental disorder that each and
everybody is prone to. We are likely to suffer depression almost every day and
if we are not knowledgeably enough,
we may not know how to drag themselves out.
The
thing that keeps one living, is the sense of future that there is tomorrow.
Tomorrow that provides purpose of life and that in it there is something to
look forward. One thing you must realize is that you are never alone in life.
Depression always comes with you all the way long. This is because on the
journey of self-realization, you will always meet people who will hurt you,
frustrate you or block your way. You will meet people who will disagree with
you, oppose you or pull down your achievements. In the course of these
incidences, you will encounter deep within yourself anger, frustration, sadness,
anxiety, shame and so forth. You will feel out of place and as results,
depression takes over.
Mental issues are things we talk about mutely and it is because we do not understand what goes on within ourselves. People with depression battle within themselves, behind closed doors with feelings of hopelessness, despair and self-loathing. What should we do in the situation like this? Should we entertain these nasty feelings? ABSOLUTELY NO. It does not mean that your current situation is your end. There is always a green light at the end of the tunnel.
There
are three kinds of solutions that great number of people take against
depression. The first solution is PERPETUAL SELF-ISOLATION. In this solution, the
victims do not rush to commit suicide, but rather decide to always isolate themselves
from the rest of the community. They become violent and antisocial and for them
to avoid disturbances, they tend to hibernate in their own cocoons. Self-close
up leads them to the second solution ;SUICIDE. This is the most dangerous and
worse solution that one can take. It is a solution of self-termination and it
indicates signs of giving in to depression. Here the victim is unable to
isolate anymore and therefore the only solution is to commit suicide. The last
solution is CONFRONTATION. It is the best action to get rid of depression. Here
the victim decides to confront such feelings and fights them back. He/she does
not allow them to dominate rather confronts them through exercises.
One may
ask, why exercise? Exercises are good because they make the body move and
change the position. When the body changes, the brain also changes and
subsequently refreshment and new start comes in. Sleeping is not a solution
rather it only covers the feelings of depression. Get out and do some exercise
because this is the only way forward.
Kate
Spade, an American fashion designer and a businesswoman recently committed
suicide. Her husband claimed that she has been battling with depression and
anxiety for the last five years. This is clear and distinct example of what
depression can do.
Jim
Eugene Carry, Eminem, and our very own Wahi kagwi have all come out to confess that
they have battled with depression at some point of their lives. These are
individuals who have everything that money can buy. But still depression
pursuits them? This is the notion people have that if you have money, you are a
celebrity and that your life is perfect. Money has never bought happiness. Depression
is for everybody; “the haves” and “haves not.”
The
victims of depression often do not expose their world. Their world is
unreachable. They tend to hide simply because self-exposition is a sign of
defeat and weakness. The repercussion is, the more they enclose themselves the
more the depression consumes them.
It
is our responsibility to protect any individual going through depression. We
are our brothers’ keeper. Let us not stigmatize or discriminate them. They need
our help. We can keep each other happy if we put our efforts together in
fighting depression.
This article was written by Winnicate Muthoni, a student of Nairobi Technical College.
This article was written by Winnicate Muthoni, a student of Nairobi Technical College.
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